Coping With Money and Health Worries in Later Life
Updated: Oct 3
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This guide provides general information and practical suggestions for older adults coping with bereavement and emotional wellbeing. It is not a substitute for individual medical advice or emergency support.
As we get older, worries about money and health can sometimes seem to go hand in hand.
You may be concerned about paying the bills while also waiting for medical test results. You may worry about whether your pension will be enough if your health changes. Or perhaps you've recently been bereaved and suddenly find yourself managing finances and healthcare decisions on your own.
These worries are understandable.
The difficulty is that when several concerns become tangled together, they can feel much bigger than they really are.
The first step is often to separate them.
Separate one worry from another
When we're anxious, our minds tend to bundle everything together.
A concern about money becomes a fear about losing the house. A health concern becomes a fear about the future. Instead, write each worry down separately. Ask yourself:
Is this mainly a health issue?
Is it mainly a financial issue?
Is there something I can do today?
Who is the right person or organisation to ask?
Breaking worries into smaller pieces often makes them feel much more manageable.
Deal with facts, not fears
When we're worried, it's easy to imagine the worst. Instead, gather the facts.
If it's a financial concern, collect together the relevant letters, bills or statements. Write down exactly what you know rather than what you fear might happen.
If it's a health concern, keep a brief note of your symptoms and discuss them with your GP or healthcare professional instead of relying on internet searches or guesswork.
Facts give us something solid to work with.
Anxiety rarely does.
Ask the right people
You don't have to solve every problem on your own.
For financial concerns, reliable sources of advice may include official government services, Citizens Advice or appropriately qualified financial advisers.
For health concerns, your GP, hospital team or another healthcare professional is usually the best source of guidance.
Be cautious about accepting advice from social media, internet forums or unexpected telephone callers.
Unfortunately, older people are sometimes targeted by scams that take advantage of worry or uncertainty.
Never give passwords, banking details or remote access to your computer to someone who contacts you unexpectedly.
Focus on the next step
When several problems arrive at once, it's tempting to try solving everything immediately. Instead, ask yourself: "What's the next sensible step?"
That might be:
booking a GP appointment;
opening one important letter;
checking whether you're entitled to financial support;
telephoning an organisation for advice;
asking someone you trust to sit with you while you make a difficult call.
Small actions often reduce anxiety far more effectively than hours of worrying.
Money worries after bereavement
Losing a husband, wife or partner often brings financial responsibilities you may never have dealt with before:
There may be pensions to understand.
Benefits to notify.
Utility bills to transfer.
Probate to deal with.
Paperwork can feel overwhelming when you're also grieving. Take one task at a time.
Official government guidance can help you understand what needs to happen and in what order.
If the situation is complicated, don't hesitate to seek professional advice.
You don't have to become an expert overnight.
Try not to revisit the same worry repeatedly
Many people find themselves checking the same figures, rereading the same letters or imagining different future scenarios. Unfortunately, this rarely produces new answers.
If you've already gathered the information you need and know what your next step is, give yourself permission to leave the problem until it's time to act.
Constantly revisiting it usually increases anxiety without improving the outcome.
Look after your wellbeing too
Money and health worries can easily become all-consuming. Try to make space each day for something that isn't about problems:
A walk.
A conversation.
Reading.
Gardening.
Listening to music.
Spending time with family.
Looking after your wellbeing isn't avoiding your responsibilities.
It's helping you stay well enough to deal with them.
Remember that asking for advice isn't failure
Some people feel embarrassed about asking for financial help or admitting they don't understand official paperwork. Others worry about bothering their GP with health concerns.
Please don't let pride stop you getting the support you need.
Most professionals would much rather answer your questions early than see you struggling in silence.
Asking for advice is a sensible step, not a sign of weakness.
When should you ask for more help?
If worries about money or health are becoming overwhelming, affecting your sleep, leading to constant anxiety or making it difficult to manage everyday life, speak to your GP.
If financial problems are causing significant stress, seek independent advice as early as possible rather than waiting for the situation to worsen.
Support is available, and many difficulties become easier to manage once you've shared them with the right people.
Sources and further information
This guide provides general information and emotional support. It is not a substitute for medical, mental-health, legal or financial advice. The organisations listed have not reviewed or endorsed this guide.
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