Coping With Loneliness in Later Life

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Practical ideas for easing isolation and finding renewed connection

Loneliness can affect anyone, but it often becomes more noticeable in later life. Retirement, bereavement, health changes, or family moving away can all reduce daily contact with others.

Feeling lonely doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it’s a human response to wanting more connection than you currently have.

There are gentle ways to make life feel less empty and more supported.

• Acknowledge how you feel

  • Loneliness can bring sadness, frustration, or a sense of being forgotten. Naming it honestly helps you take steps to change it. You’re not alone in feeling this way — many older people experience similar emotions.

• Keep simple daily contact

  • Even brief interactions make a difference. Say hello to neighbours, chat with shop staff, or make a short phone call each day. Small moments of contact help you feel part of the world again and gradually rebuild confidence.

• Stay connected through shared interests

  • Joining a local group, class, or community activity can help you meet others naturally. Look for groups that focus on something you already enjoy — gardening, art, walking, music, or volunteering. Connection feels easier when it’s built around shared purpose rather than forced conversation.

• Use technology at your own pace

  • If getting out is difficult, simple online contact — video calls, local Facebook groups, or community forums — can help you stay in touch. Ask someone you trust to help you set things up if needed. Regular communication, even digitally, can ease feelings of isolation.

• Balance time alone with time together

  • Solitude can be peaceful when chosen, but painful when unwanted. Try to plan at least one small social contact each day, even if it’s brief. You might also plan quiet time for reading, music, or rest so that time alone feels calmer, not empty.

• Keep a sense of purpose

  • Having a reason to get up each day — caring for a pet, maintaining a garden, helping someone else — supports wellbeing and helps replace lost routines. Purpose doesn’t have to be grand; small contributions matter.

• Look after body and mind

  • Regular meals, movement, and enough rest all affect mood and motivation. A walk outdoors, fresh air, or gentle exercise can lift your energy and make social contact feel easier.

• Reflection questions

  • When do I feel most lonely, and what helps at those times?

  • Who could I reach out to for a short chat or shared activity?

  • What small steps could help me feel more part of life again?

• If loneliness feels too heavy

  • If isolation continues for weeks and affects your mood, speak to your GP or a counsellor. Support can help you rebuild confidence and find ways to reconnect that suit your personality and pace.

• You’re not alone

  • Loneliness is a common experience, especially later in life. With small daily actions, steady contact, and the right support, it’s possible to rebuild connection and rediscover a sense of belonging.

If you’d like to explore how professional support can help with emotional wellbeing in later life, click to visit the Counselling for Older People page.